Valérie Foulem well..I appreciate the response. Not bitter..a lot of that I said was lolz. However a lot of truth is said in jest. Im not bitter either. Just jaded. Its gotten to the point where more people identify with the forever alone meme and just laugh it off because meeting someone who actually wants to be with you for who you are and not what you have is harder and harder. You seem like a nice person...that also how I can tell youve been effed over before. Just seems like somewhere along the way chicks started falling in love with losers and that paved the way for losers to be cool. Jobless, shiftless, go nowhere, have no plans people that sit around and work on their hair all day. I sit back and laugh at a lot of my female friends who either date these complete wastes of life. Hilarious. Jaded yes bitter....not yet. Have a good one!
Valérie Foulem Now lets say one takes this advice and goes and asks out a girl they really like. This girl may or may not say yes. Fact is, if they say no it spreads like wildfire, and said guy will never hear the end of it (because of bitches and douchebags). If the world were not full of them, relationships would get quite a bit easier to start.
Gerry Branscombe True, but we can't help it. There's going to be those idiots everywhere in life. But you can't know unless you try, right? And eventually, you learn to get back up on your feet. I just like to take chances when I can, maybe it's just a girl's point of view vs boy's issue here.
David Brazeal Pardon! That is rather what I meant, my first language isn't English so I get lost in translation XD I'm glad to see that you take it with a laugh, that's the way to do it. And I suppose a few what if's are good too. It's pretty impossible to live without them, since well...you can't take EVERY opportunity. And believe me, I associate to Forever Alone a looooot more than I care to admit, but we're all young, everything hasn't happened yet and none of us have to take anything we don't want. Good luck!
David Brazeal I understand that some girls are like that, but hey, who says you have to give up on this girl? And I understand that asking someone out is A HUGE gamble. But in my opinion, it is better to just get it out than to always wonder "what if". Some girls are bitches, some guys are douchebags. I mean, I've been friendzoned too, I asked guys out I swear and they said no let's just be friends. AND IT SUCKS. But, the women I know and hang with are JUST WAITING for a nice guy to ask them out. It's all a question of who you fall for, right? I can see you're very bitter, and you've got every right to be, I'm not calling you out, I'm on your side here. I remember saying that all guys are asswipes that only want sex just because someone I freakin' loved shot me down. But just don't give up, ok? :) You'll find a girl who isn't some bitch who can't see what's right in front of her, it may take time, but it will happen!
Thats bullshit. That whole thing is bullshit. Broads want a guy whos a complete douchetard. They value good looks over personality and even though they will disagree until forever they have ZERO interest in a decent guy. A decent guy gets stuck in the friendzone and then eventually turns into an asshole. Unfortunately the transfomation can never complete into a douchetard so he stays alone.
Steven Curcio That is true. Personally, if I do like someone I like them to know so that I don't waffle over them for a long time. Also, I hate to hang over their every word to see if there's some encouragement. Relationship-wise, I am pretty straightforward and well...I am a horrible flirt, so I don't like to dawdle in that stage XD But I agree with what you say. And it's true, sometimes people set you up to be an ass. Everyone's been there or is going to be, not everyone can like us. But if you really TRULY love someone, it's better not to wait. I almost stayed with a guy I really disliked just because my crush wasn't making a move, and I felt like he wasn't interested when he was actually just shy. I'm glad we both manned up (can I use that term? WHATEVS. I'm manly enough!) because we'd be so unhappy XD So I speak from what I experienced, but it's true that what I say works with me, maybe not with everyone
True enough, but a lot of us appreciate that you do :) It takes a lot of courage, we know that. The ones who don't appreciate it are bitches and you should just ignore those rude people. Men have to be pretty damn brave sometimes to ask us out, you go against a LOT of stuff. But hey if it's been a while and you guys are getting closer and closer...might as well :) Good luck, and I hope you'll feel better soon!
Valérie Foulem unfortunately tho, the fact is that majority of the girls in those circumstances are bitches, no offense, im sure ur a nice girl but this is what happens to guys. most girls don't even respond to you